An excerpt from EXPOSED
The Extra Layer
I have been careful throughout this book to keep the focus on the structural conditions rather than the personal dynamics. That framing is intentional. The conditions problem is not unique to any one identity. Capable leaders of every background walk into environments that were not designed to hold them, and the pattern I have been describing plays out across industries, geographies, and demographics.
And yet I would be less than honest if I did not name something directly.
The specific experience of having my competence reframed as a personality problem — of being told I was too broad, too connected, too visible, too much — is one that Black women in corporate leadership have documented with a consistency and specificity that cannot be explained by coincidence.
Research is unambiguous on this point. Black women are significantly underrepresented in senior leadership despite consistently high rates of professional ambition and educational attainment. They are more likely than their white peers to have their ideas dismissed in meetings and then recirculated without attribution. They are more likely to receive feedback focused on style and presence rather than outcomes and results. And they are more likely to be described as difficult, aggressive, or not the right fit — precisely when they are doing exactly what the role requires.
The feedback I received — mile wide and an inch deep, part of the problem, the SLT feels this way — did not arrive in a vacuum. It arrived in the context of who I was and what I represented in that room. A Black woman hired by the leader who brought me in, with direct relationships across the senior leadership team, producing results that were impossible to quietly dismiss. In that context, the reframing of competence as personality is not just an organizational dynamic. It is a specific pattern with a specific history.
And maybe your dimension is not the one I carry. Maybe you are a gay man, and your difference becomes the thing people quietly route around. Maybe you are the youngest person in the room, your insight discounted as inexperience. Maybe you belong to a generation the people in power do not consider the norm — or you carry an accent, a faith, a background that marks you, subtly, as other. The dimension changes from person to person. The mechanism does not. A difference becomes the lens your competence is read through, and once that lens is in place, the work you do is interpreted to fit the story already forming about you.
I do not tell that part of the story to reduce what happened to a single dimension. The conditions problem is real regardless of who is inside it. But I also refuse to pretend that the dimension does not exist — because for every leader reading this book who has experienced what I have described, and who also happens to be a Black woman, or a woman of color, or any leader whose identity has historically been treated as a variable rather than a value, the pattern is not just familiar. It is exhausting in a particular way that deserves to be acknowledged.
You are not imagining the extra layer. You are not being too sensitive.
The conditions problem, for you, often comes with an additional condition — the condition of being seen as the problem precisely when you are doing the work most effectively.
Valetta
EXPOSED
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